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SEX AND RELATIONSHIPS DURING PREGNANCY
When a woman is pregnant for the first time, it is likely for her and her spouse to be concerned about the consequences that making love will have on their unborn child.
The most common questions are:
- Will pressure on the womb harm the child?
- Is there a risk of infection?
- Are some sexual positions safer than others?
These concerns make some women and men less likely to make love.
Is Normal Sex Life Possible?
Sexual intercourse is not harmful during pregnancy. The fetus lies securely in the womb and intermittent movement, contact or orgasms do not cause it any harm. At the time of orgasm, the womb will contract more than normal, but these aren't the contractions as those prior to delivery.
When sex is not safe?
- Any bleeding during or after sex should always be discussed with your doctor. A check of the cervix and possibly an ultrasound scan will be recommended.
- If the bleeding is repeated, it may be advised that you have less of sex.
- If the placenta (afterbirth) is over the cervix (a state known as placenta praevia) you may be recommended to keep away from intercourse altogether.
What couples need to do when the stomach grows?
During the first trimester of pregnancy, the fetus takes up very little space in the womb that it generally can't be seen or felt. But once the stomach begins to increase, love making can be a little uncomfortable.
It is better to find other sexual positions. By trying out new positions, couples could explore what suits them best.
Does sexual drive decline during pregnancy?
It is feasible to make love during pregnancy, from the very first day to the last. But the need to make love can fluctuate a great deal. Both the partners need to be conscious of this fact.
A successful sexual relationship at all times depends on a couple wanting to make love – regardless if one of them is pregnant.